Author Archives: Deborah A. Carder

Deborah A. Carder

About Deborah A. Carder

Deborah Carder has litigated family law cases for more than a decade. While her experience includes all facets of matrimonial law, her practice is focused on the custodial needs of wealthy individuals and the complex financial issues regarding their estates and business interests.

Holidays and Divorce – Tips for Enjoying the True Spirit of the Holidays

The holidays evoke universal feelings of peace, joy and hope.  Yet, for some individuals going through the difficult process of a divorce, the mere mention of the holiday season causes anxiety.   While it may seem impossible to enjoy yourself in … Continue reading

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Combating Domestic Violence in Affluent Families

Victims of domestic violence surround us. Many victims from affluent families serve as pillars of our community, attend professional and charitable events with us, volunteer at our children’s schools, or are simply neighbors.  Outwardly, they appear to enjoy the luxuries … Continue reading

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Parents Can Strengthen Family Relationships, Even During Divorce

The word “divorce” does not conjure up positive thoughts of family wellness, but emotionally fit  parents can strengthen family relationships even during the legal process and later as a divorced family.  Typically, parents are so trapped in their own emotional … Continue reading

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Invalidating a Prenuptial Agreement in Illinois

When a party desires to have a prenuptial agreement held invalid under Illinois law, the first factor that must be considered is the date of execution.  Different standards will apply depending on when the parties entered into the agreement.  The … Continue reading

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In Cases of Domestic Violence: How Do I Get My Spouse Out of the House?

In today’s economy, many couples approaching divorce cannot afford to physically separate.  Unemployment, the decline in the value of real estate, or stock market losses have directly or indirectly impacted everyone’s net worth.  But for some parties, staying in the … Continue reading

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Spouse’s Income Could Be Relevant When Child From Prior Marriage Goes To College

Your divorce is behind you, you are happily remarried and your child from the first marriage is about to start college.  You want to enjoy the last few months before your child enters adulthood, but you find yourself embroiled in … Continue reading

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